The Art of Anal Douching and Anal Sex

There is an art to douching.  And the boys at Toys of Eros in Provincetown are spreading the word. Douches are not all built alike. And just because you buy it in a drug store doesn’t mean it’s good. There are many kinds of douches with many different attachments. But many of them can be caustic to sensitive anal tissue, or can actually make things worse, creating a mess down there.  We had to design our own to get the perfect douche. We call it The Perfect Clean, by Toys of Eros. The best way to get clean, involves a two step process.  This is because you have several chambers in your anal canal, that lead upward to your lower colon, and then your intestines. It never ends. But anal sex only involves the first chamber.  With that in mind, let’s examine the douche set that Toys of Eros recommends. There is one bulb to hold the water, and two different nozzles. (See Diagram.)  The first nozzle you use is the one that has a hole in the tip, so the water shoots straight up into your rectum. If anything is inside the first chamber, you will expel it in

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Lesbian Sex Talk: Anal Sex for Total Beginners, or “Yikes, she wants to have anal sex!”

So she wants to have anal sex.  If you both do it right, you’ll end up loving it! But you still feel shy, weird, grossed out. First things first. Identify what’s making you feel reticent. The first reason some of use don’t partake in anal sex is because we think it’s “dirty.”  It’s not.  The  beginning of your anus that is involved in anal play usually has no fecal material.  Unless you have to go the bathroom, your fecal matter is way up inside. But, if you are still concerned,  you can always have a bowel movement prior to having anal sex. Or, do a fast enema if you want to be squeaky clean.  Our boys at Toys of Eros, experts in anal sex, gave us some important hints and info about enemas. Don’t start with a finger:  Many newbies think the way to start exploring anal sex is with a finger.  Don’t.  A finger isn’t necessarily smooth and thin. There are toys that are smaller and smoother than a finger.  Choose a vibrating slim anal toy to relax the anus even more.  Toys of Eros favorites are the Silicone Pop Beads, the O’Boy, and the Harvey. They are all the size

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Lesbian Sex Talk: Anal Sex for Total Beginners, or “Yikes, she wants to have anal sex!”

So she wants to have anal sex.  If you both do it right, you’ll end up loving it! But you still feel shy, weird, grossed out. First things first. Identify what’s making you feel reticent. The first reason some of use don’t partake in anal sex is because we think it’s “dirty.”  It’s not.  The  beginning of your anus that is involved in anal play usually has no fecal material.  But if you want to feel squeaky clean, you can always use an anal douche.  Our boys at Toys of Eros, experts in anal sex, gave us some important hints and info about enemas. Don’t start with a finger:  Many newbies think the way to start exploring anal sex is with a finger.  Don’t.  A finger isn’t necessarily smooth and thin. There are toys that are smaller and smoother than a finger.  Choose a vibrating slim anal toy to relax the anus even more.  Lesbian Gear favorites are the Silicone Pop Beads, the O’Boy, and the Harvey. They are all the size of a finger, made of safe silicone material, and vibrate. The three most important ingredients of anal play are relaxation, lubrication, and communication. Relaxation:   The anus is made of two

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Here’s the 411 on Female Ejaculation

August 4th, 2016 by Suzannah Weiss Read original article on glamour.com Of all the things our bodies do, perhaps nothing is shrouded in more mystery than female ejaculation. Headlines and online forums are constantly speculating as to what it’s made of, how it’s triggered, and even whether or not it actually happens. We’ve been in the dark for so long about this phenomenon because it’s kind of hard to study in a laboratory setting, sex therapist Vanessa Marin points out. But we do know that it’s real, and contrary to recent rumors, it’s not just pee. Female ejaculate is actually made of the same stuff as semen, minus the sperm, says Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen, Ph.D. The same way the clitoris is similar to the penis, the G-spot is like the prostate (in fact, scientists call it the prostata femina), and stimulating it can yield a similar response. Though the numbers aren’t known, she and Marin both think a small minority of women ejaculate already and more probably could with the right stimulation. If you want to try it yourself, Marin recommends using the Njoy Pure Wand on your G-spot while stimulating your clitoris. If you’re worried about

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What’s up with Nipple Clamps?

Think the idea of nipple clamps is nuts? Find it hard to understand the appeal?   Discover why everyone should add a pinch of nipple naughtiness to their play. What is Nipple Play and Nipple Torture?

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